No Buying Sugar for a Year – Plus Thoughts on Designing Goals

One of my goals for 2018 is to not buy sugar.  This isn’t about having a hard-core goal that is some sensational story to blog about: “I went one year without eating any sugar.  Here’s what happened!”  Nope.  There is nothing hard core about it when I’m allowed to eat desert at my friend’s house […]

2018 Goals

I wanted to share my big goals for 2018.  As I mentioned in New Year’s Reflections  I take time at the beginning of the year to list out the important areas in my life and then write about the things that I want to happen in each area. This year, I did something a bit […]

Digital clutter

The digital clutter problem Right now, I am working on cleaning up one of the external drives I use to backup my work stuff.  And oh my gosh!  It is a total disaster! There is no sense to the file structure.  I have folders within folders within folders.  I have lots of folders labeled things […]

New Year’s Reflections

My favorite holiday is New Year’s.  I don’t party.  There is no bottle of champagne at my house.  If I’m awake at midnight it’s probably only because of my neighbors setting off fireworks. I just like the feeling that it is a new year.  It seems to invite quiet reflection on the last year and […]

What to do when you’re feeling depressed or unmotivated

This is not a post about how to cure depression long term. It is a list of things to do TODAY to help you feel at least a tiny bit better TODAY.  It includes reasons why these things are helpful. Feeling depressed is an awful thing.  It can be super hard to take action to […]

Gratitude List – 2017 Thanksgiving Edition

Wow!  Looking back at the last year, I’m struck by how much has changed for me.  I am so grateful for where I am in life today.  A year ago, I had no clue what was in store for me.  I make a short gratitude list at least a few times a week.  (My 2017 […]

A few thoughts on being a mom

I’ve been thinking lately about the things that I’ve come to understand in my short time as a mom. It’s strange because I’ve been a woman my whole life, but I never really thought about it all that much. Being pregnant and giving birth made me realize just how crazy strong and important women really […]

Limitations of the day

What are your limitations today? I pose this question because what we think of as our limitations have a big influence of what we actually do in a day and whether or not we feel guilty about not doing ‘enough’.  We get into trouble when we expect our limitations are different than they really are.  […]

Better Than Before

I just finished reading Better Than Before: Mastering the Habits of Our Everyday Lives by Gretchen Rubin and it turned out to be a very interesting read. I find habits to be a fascinating topic because they have such an impact on our lives. What I really loved about this book was how it acknowledged […]

Don’t let what you can’t do change what you can do

Several months ago I heard someone say, “Don’t let what you can’t do change what you can do.” The truth is that there are lots of times when I do let what I can’t do limit me further than it has to.  Sometimes this happens in small ways.  For example, if I have to leave […]